There are times Nikki and I go to events and I see people “wreckless eyeballing” and whispering amongst their friends. I can only imagine what they are thinking and saying. It doesn’t bother me one bit. Want to know why? ‘Cause she’s leaving with me! J In those situations I smile and might even give the onlookers a wink to let them know… “I see you lookin’ witcha lookin’ azz”…haha! I’m laughing but very serious. I find it complimentary and take no offense when others find my sweets attractive - as long as they remain respectful. Now if it goes any further than a glance and crosses that fine line into disrespect, then Brandy off ‘da block might join the party...(KAPOW!) I want Nikki to look good, feel good, and know that it’s all good when we are in the midst of others. I walk a little taller, smile a little wider and give that infamous nod that says... “Thank you, thank you, thank you… you’re far too kind” (in my Jay-Z voice). I often kid with her before leaving the house, depending on what she decides to wear, if she’s trying to get me into an altercation or something.
So, when someone is looking at your significant other or may even pay them a compliment, does it make you ‘feel some kinda way?’ If you get that feeling in your chest, does that mean you’re insecure and possessive? When are too many compliments too much attention?
©BNasha, November, 2011
