Nikki: The past couple of weeks Brandy and I have been toying around with blog ideas and have come up with many ideas ranging from “roles” in relationships, ‘in the closet’ partners, spirituality to raising children. We even had a request to discuss a particular topic which we certainly might cover in the future. For now, we wanted keep this blog light, short and sweet. With Valentine’s Day right around the corner we thought it would be a fun idea to share our favorite Valentine’s stories. Hey, maybe even throw in the worst if you choose. What does Valentine’s Day mean to you? How do you recognize your significant other? Whether you’re single, in a relationship or married, what are your 2011 Valentine’s Day plans?
For me, Valentine’s Day is a wonderful opportunity to remind your loved one just how much she means to you. It doesn’t have to be through an extravagant gift or over lobster in a fancy restaurant (though I won’t complain ;-)). It can be as simple as a card or an extra “I love you”. If the gesture is sincere, genuine and from the heart, I’ll take it.
I remember for several single years my dearest friend and I would celebrate V-day together. We’d toast to our friendship and although we loved each other greatly, I think we’d each silently pray the following year wouldn’t be the same. Thank goodness those prayers have been answered. She’s now off in married bliss and I’m on my way. J
Last year Brandy and I spent Valentine’s weekend in Atlanta. I remember it snowed the day I arrived which put a freeze on some of our plans; however, we made up for the monkey wrench in other ways and created some of the best Valentine’s memories ever. J This year we’ll be celebrating together a few days late… Although the “significance” of the day will have passed, we’ve realized that the quality of our time together doesn’t necessarily have to fall on a certain occasion—we’ve committed to gifting one another with our love in a variety of ways and through different measures not only on February 14th, but each and every day of the year as well. Happy Valentine’s Day to all! ♥
Brandy: Valentine’s Day should be called “Embellish Day” in my opinion! I think it’s a day to reiterate your love for your sweetie. Granted, I’m sure Nikki knows and feels my love each and every day, and I’m just as sure the ‘embellishment’ on this day is greatly appreciated as well. To celebrate our love in the midst of everyone else doing the same seems pretty cool!
I can’t say that I’ve always been a fan of what I call the “Hallmark” holiday. When all of my friends were in relationships or dating and I was home alone, the “made up” day wasn’t on my high list of celebrations. I remember turning off my phone and having a shutdown day/weekend until it was all over. Much like Nikki, I too would pray for the following year to bring about the most wonderful person to share in the day with. All I can say to that is, how lucky am I?!
I must admit I’m a bit suckered into the day NOW that I have my sweet Nik. I’ve been thinking of ways to woo my sweetheart and make her day even more wonderful. J Surely I do not wait until February 14th to love her up, but I will use the day to be extra chummy! So now I have to see if I can do better than last year... ha-ha! This is going to be a wonderful celebration… y’all just don’t know!
Use this day to add a little extra loving, hugging and snuggling! It’s a day to give emphasis to: thank you, I appreciate you, I love you, I am so happy to have you, and all of the other wonderful sentiments you share with your special someone.
Happy Valentine’s Day! ♥
© Nikki Rashan, Brandy Nasha February 2011
